Good Job News for Girlie Men
by Bob Goldman
Creators Syndicate Inc
This economic disaster does not play favorites.
Pick any person, in any job category, and you
will find fear, depression and uncertainty. Even
the strongest people, with the best prospects,
the most education, and the highest level of job
skills live in fear of a sudden reversal that will
put them permanently out to pasture.
When it comes to feeling scared and hopeless,
this economy — as they say in employment ads,
back when there used to be employment ads –
is an equal opportunity employer, male and
female.
Or is it? According to personal branding expert
Catherine Kaputa, female job searchers have a
“feminine advantage: distinct, hardwired
advantages over male counterparts and
competitors.”
If you’re a woman, Kaputa says, all you have to
do is leverage your natural advantages. What a
man is supposed to do, Kaputa does not
specify. (”Giving up” might be one strategy –
putting down your beer, stripping off your
football jersey, enjoying one last, loud burp, and
walking into the sea.)
In her new book, “The Female Brand: Using the
Female Mindset to Succeed in Business,”
Kaputa presses her case that “women are
naturally wired for success.” Using what her
publicity person — a woman, naturally –
describes as “the latest brain science,” the
author “debunks old and misguided workplace
myths that women must think and act like a man
to succeed.”
Unfortunately, in this economy, even thinking
and acting like a man is no guarantee for
success. That’s why I feel it is absolutely fair for
men to use the “feminine advantage” to solve
our job problems. For a girlie man like me, this
should be relatively simple. But the way I see it,
even a he-man like you could benefit from
taking on few of these girlish traits.
For example:
This economic disaster does not play favorites.
Pick any person, in any job category, and you
will find fear, depression and uncertainty. Even
the strongest people, with the best prospects,
the most education, and the highest level of job
skills live in fear of a sudden reversal that will
put them permanently out to pasture.
When it comes to feeling scared and hopeless,
this economy — as they say in employment ads,
back when there used to be employment ads –
is an equal opportunity employer, male and
female.
Or is it? According to personal branding expert
Catherine Kaputa, female job searchers have a
“feminine advantage: distinct, hardwired
advantages over male counterparts and
competitors.”
If you’re a woman, Kaputa says, all you have to
do is leverage your natural advantages. What a
man is supposed to do, Kaputa does not
specify. (”Giving up” might be one strategy –
putting down your beer, stripping off your
football jersey, enjoying one last, loud burp, and
walking into the sea.)
In her new book, “The Female Brand: Using the
Female Mindset to Succeed in Business,”
Kaputa presses her case that “women are
naturally wired for success.” Using what her
publicity person — a woman, naturally –
describes as “the latest brain science,” the
author “debunks old and misguided workplace
myths that women must think and act like a man
to succeed.”
Unfortunately, in this economy, even thinking
and acting like a man is no guarantee for
success. That’s why I feel it is absolutely fair for
men to use the “feminine advantage” to solve
our job problems. For a girlie man like me, this
should be relatively simple. But the way I see it,
even a he-man like you could benefit from
taking on few of these girlish traits.
For example:
Tune in Emotionally: Women are especially
“intuitive and empathetic,” says Kaputa. It’s a
condition she chalks up to a higher level of
hormones, such as estrogen and oxytocin. By
being more open to others’ feelings, her theory
goes, women can form closer bonds to “build
strong and healthy work relationships.”
Accepting for a moment that a “healthy work
relationship” actually exists, this lack of
hormones is a difficult hurdle for mankind. You
could ask for extra estrogen on your double
cheeseburger, or add an oxytocin chaser to your
boilermaker. But the harsh truth is that, in the
game of biology, you have to play with the
hormones you were dealt. That leaves guys with
testosterone, a hormone more connected with
caveman violence than with intuition or
empathy.